We all do it from time to time. Bat our eyes, purse our lips, twirl our hair around a finger or two. Flirt shamelessly when we are trying to attract someone. But, what if you communicated that way with, well, everyone? What if every time you went out, and everyone you spoke to, including the cashier at the convenience store, became another opportunity to flirt or communicate in a sexual way? What if you didn’t even realize you were doing it?

Well, you might be a sexual communicator. And while communicating sexually with someone you are intimately involved with (or trying to be intimately involved with) is acceptable and healthy; communicating sexually with your married neighbor, your co-workers, your boss, your friends, your friend’s boyfriend, or people you do not intend to have an intimate relationship with is, well, dangerous and unhealthy, even if you don’t mean to do it or…